How And Why Do Babies Develop A Strong Bond With Their Parents?
Its physiological…
Parents physically created the child.
And the child was physically created by the parent.
But even children adopted develop a bond with their “parents” and this is also physiological. Even more so really, their not biologically related and don’t feel obligated in certain ways that other parents do but considering everything that theyve done for you…
Child-parent bonding is heavily based on trust. In the beginning, a baby has basic needs that need attention, and he or she begins to trust that those needs – feeding, clean diapers, cuddling, being kept warm, etc. – will be met by the parents or caretakers. Over time, the baby learns to recognize his or her parents/guardians and develops even more of a bond through that familiarity.
Babies are born with survival instincts which cause them to cry when they are in discomfort/pain/hungry. When their needs get met, they start to trust the person meeting those needs, as long as they are consistent and dependable. They start to associate the relief of the discomfort with the person providing the relief…which ensures their survival, so they (the baby) is happy at the most intrinsic level.
That is the way of a child developing.
when the baby develops a strong bond with its parents
the emotional bond that an infant forms with a parent is the basis upon which infants will built trust with others
this is called interrelationship between emotional and social development
touch,smell and taste,social interaction and more. Get this…..scientists studied two baby monkeys. they left one with its mother and put another in a cage with a metal frame mother monkey look alike that had nipples so the baby could feed. The metal mother could not touch, groom, hug or hold the baby…only feed it thru the nipples.
THAT baby grew up neurotic while the baby who stayed with its mother grew up normal. We need bonding
It’s in our DNA just like animals. We spend so much time with our parents too we just know that they are something really special to us at that time. It’s not completely understandable how it works or why it works the way it does. Honestly it probably never will be, but it is one of the most amazing things in life.
Companionship, loyalty, the feeling of being safe, love, the care for them, the time with them and just everything.
because mom and dad take care of them
in the womb they hear mom and dads voices
and once they are out they know the smell
but the bond is really developed by parents feeding holding and caring for baby
very complex realy, but its about fulfilling baby’s needs and giving care on a basic level.
Whose voices do they hear 24/7 for the 40 weeks while they’re inside the womb?
With their mom its breast feeding, and with their dad its long boring talks.
you just have to let them know that you ♥ and care for them!! :}
the same way you bonded with urs