I Was Wondering How Do You Talk To Black Women Like Asking Them Out On A Date And I’m Black Myself?
Because i don’t have a problem with hispanic,whites or asians going out on dates but for some reason, the last 4 black girls i tried to speak to turned me down cold.. One at the mall when i was trying to say hello, hows your day going on the escalator she didn’t even turn around to look at me and kept walking, and the others just didn’t find me interesting or something, now i am a good guy, i have a good job, good credit (740) i own my home, i never been in trouble with the law.. My other black friend said THAT’S THE PROBLEM, i’m to much of a good guy, i need to wear my pants to my ankles, speak unbroken english like lil-wayne and have a criminal record, which i know they were messing around but its sad to hear that they would say that because it seems alot of black women do go for those guys first and get pregnant and after the fact when the gangster guy does to Jail or just isnt around for the kids THAN THE NICE GUY IS LOOKING GOOD and she expect him now to take care of her and her lil-gangster baby because, now she is out of options.. I would want to settle down with a black women but it seems like this is almost impossible and its pushing me away futher from black women, So what do i do? I’m 27
You’re persuing the wrong African American women. I’m African American myself and I can assure you that if any man of any race approached me speaking broken English and sagging his pants, I wouldn’t dare give him the time of day. If a man as decent as you approached me respectfully, the only thing that would keep me from giving him the time of day would be lack of physical attraction.
.Dress to impress.I’m pretty sure girls of your own race aren’t ignoring you.The approach is wrong.Don’t expect girls to be attracted to a stranger by a casual word.You have to work on builing a friendship
Nothing, be yourself.
If you were 13 years younger, I’d date you :].
You sound nice!